The new cat is adorable. Well, at least she was when my MUM was petting her. As soon as I approached to her, she hissed and slapped my head and hand.
I want my real cat back. I miss him so much. Where is he? Why does the new cat have to hate me that much?
I really try to love her. But if she acts like that on the first day, what am I supposed to do? I just can't stop the tears from falling. And I want my normal life back. Everything started going downwards from last Friday on. I wish I could just be gone, just see my dad and my cat again.
I know I sound really emo and pathetic now, but I'm really driving to a dead end. Life is so senseless, hard and stressing.
Why?
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Why would it be pathetic? You've gone through a lot, so it's only normal. Cats are weird like that. Whenever my aunty gets a new cat (twice since I was born), they're always like that at first, now they sit next to me and stuff. (Too bad I'm allergic!!!)
The point is, the cat has just entered a whole new world (like the song!!!) and he/she needs some getting used to. Please give it some time and try not to worry about the cat too much. I'm proud of you, it has been bad for you recently.
I know I sound cheesy, but it's true. Just wait and the cat will love you. My aunty's cat took a week to forgive me after I accidentally stepped on its tail!
Maybe she loves me, but still I don't really know what I should do. She could've been scared by my dog, or had some pain and directly related that to me.
She came into my bed yesterday and slept there, and we cuddled for a while.
I've still got a problem, because my grandpa told me I was like 'calamity jane' today when I wanted to greet my cousin and not play servant for them.
Then my mom didn't say a single word to greet me and has ignored me for the past hour.
I'm clueless about what to do, and why my grandpa said hit me really hard, since my mum and I were always the black sheep of the family. Life is no fun when you don't feel you're worth it.
(My word verification says suizi, does it want to hint something?)
(Sounds Japanese... and "blocrea" sounds like some condition where your bum gets blocked and you can't poo :3)
The first few sentences are good, we did "classical conditioning" in psychology class which told us how people and animals associate things with eachother, like if a baby was playing with a toy and every time he touched it, a loud noise was heard, he'd be scared of the toy after a while. However, if he was to keep playing with the toy without the loud noises happening, the phobia would go away. Maybe the cat was scared because she was taken to a new place by new people (or saw the dog) and she associated you with the fear. Just a suggestion, but if that's the case, it won't last long if you're nice to her.
I don't know who Calamity Jane is but I'm guessing it's not a nice thing to call your granddaughter. Are you saying that you and your mum are looked down upon by the rest of the family? I really don't see why but that's really mean. Every family member should be treated the same, it's just immature to be like that. Also, when you said "play servant", do you mean your family was ordering you about? Because they shouldn't do THAT either, it's just not right, you're part of the family. But why did your mum ignore you?
I really hate it when people treat you like this, Su-chan... If I was there with you I'd always help but sadly I'm not. Just try your best to be happy, and let time do the healing.
Woot, psychological studies seem cool. Why do we never have THAT as a subject?!
And, I guess she really is scared by her new surroundings and everything being so stressing, but she really didn't have to bite me.
You know, a calamity jane is what the girl in that fairytale with the old woman and the two sisters is called, and she is the lazy, foul one. And she gets no gold in the end. (Don't blame me, blame dict.cc!!)
And my granpy already apologized, he didn't mean it that way.
It was a very mean thing to say...
And your cat will soon get used to it. Any progress?
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